Teach the Child
When we think about Torah scholarship we think of a vast library of Jewish books. We think of the great Jewish sages; we think of Moses, Hillel, Rabbi Akiva, Rashi, Maimonides, and the list goes on and on. When we think of scholarship,we do not usually think of a young boy or girl in the first grade reading the first verse of Genesis, or the first line of the Mishnah. Yet, the commandment to study the Torah is derived[1] from the verse in the Shemah ”You shall teach them thoroughly to your children”[2], (repeated in this week's Parsha “You shall teach them to your children”[3]).
Why is the commandment that the scholar study Torah derived from the commandment to teach a child? Isn't the child’s learning only a necessary first step in the process of intellectual enlightenment? Isn't the adult’s wisdom the key to true learning? Why is the Child’s learning the source of the scholar's commandment? The Torah must be telling us that there is something unique in a child’s learning that the adult must aspire to. We must therefore say that quintessential learning is the domain of a child.
In the Ethics of our Fathers[4], Elisha Ben Avuyah teaches:
One who learns Torah in his childhood, what is this comparable to? To ink inscribed on fresh paper. One who learns Torah in his old age, what is this comparable to? To ink inscribed on erased paper."
The first half of the statement, praising the study of Torah in childhood, is understood. We want to encourage young people to learn while their mind is still fresh and impressionable; yet the second half of the statement is perplexing. Why would we disparage the adult learner? Do we not remember that Rabbi Akiva, one of the all time greatest Torah scholars, began to study Torah at age forty? If Rabbi Akiva would have learnt about the "ink written on erased paper" would he not have been discouraged from learning - and one of the greatest minds would have been lost to the Jewish people?
The answer is as simple as it is profound:
The Mishnah is not telling us to learn when we are a child; but rather the Mishnah is telling us to learn like a child[5]. Not to avoid learning in old age, but rather to avoid learning with the attitude of an adult. Often, the adult feels that he has seen it all. Often, he feels wise, full of knowledge, and in possession of the answers to all the big questions. A new idea cannot enter his mind unless it can squeeze through his existing knowledge. His mind is not interested in revolutions, it is interested in ideas that confirm his perspective and conform to his existing point of view.
The child, on the other hand, is curious, open to new insights, and intrigued by the mysteries of the universe. The child recognizes that the there is much he or she does not understand. The child harbors no illusion that he understands all there is to know. The child approaches learning with a thirst for ideas that will revolutionize his perspective and dramatically expand his intellectual horizons.
The Mitzvah to study Torah is derived from the words “teach them thoroughly to your children”, because to grasp the infinite Divine wisdom that is in the Torah one must cultivate the attitude of a child. One must understand that no matter how wise he is, he is merely a child compared to the infinity of the Torah’s wisdom.
The word for wisdom in Hebrew is "Chochmah", which is comprised of two words "koach" and "Mah" - the "power" of "what". Every intellectual and scientific breakthrough in history came about because someone possessed the strength of character, the "power", to ask "what". While the "experts" of the conventional wisdom were sure they understood all there was to know about the topic, there was a person with wisdom, with humility, with a child-like desire to question and learn, with a child-like openness to the mysteries of the universe. The breakthrough was possible only because somewhere someone retained the child's intrigue.
So when your mother told you to "always remain a child", she was articulating the Mishnah's point of view. She wasn't telling you to keep playing in the sandbox, she was saying: "you may have a PHD at the end of your name, but next time you pick up a book, do so with an open mind".
No need to worry, we’ll have plenty of time to evaluate and assess at a later point, but at the moment we must be humble, we must be curious, we must be open.
We must learn like a child.[6]
[1] See Rambam’s Book of Commandments, positive mItzvah number 11.
[2] Deuteronomy 6:7.
[3] Ibid. 11:19.
[4] Ethics of our Fathers, 4:20.
[5] The literal translation of the Mishnah is “(“Halomed”) one who learns Torah (“Yeled”) child, this can mean: one who learns Torah in Childhood, the deeper meaning, however, is: one who learns Torah like a child.
[6] Based on the teachings of the Rebbe, Lekutey Sichos, Vaeschanan Vol. 19 Sicha 1.